The Holiday Wall

Friends, I am afraid my promised gift wrap post will not make it in time to actually be useful. I do so appreciate all the likes, comments and visits from you this past week. I was feeling a little discouraged the end of last week and you people cheered me up.

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Have you hit the Holiday Wall yet?

We have only two days to go but some of us have been prepping since August and Christmas can be exhausting.

Christmas and the surrounding holidays can often be the very opposite of what they’re supposed to be. Instead of being merry and bright, it’s hectic and stressful. As much as I love Christmas, it isn’t usually hard for me to look past all that and see all the lovely things about it, but this season has about done me in. From unexpected bills (we have an insanely tall, mostly dead maple in our backyard pulling up at the roots and threatening to topple onto the house with the next windy day that has to go, and soon) to close family members in the ER (I kid you not, my brother and mother have collectively been in the ER three times in the last week and a half) this Christmas has been anything but jolly. Luke (my dear husband) hit the Holiday Wall almost as soon as Christmas music flooded the airwaves, but I held out. Then I had an emotional breakdown yesterday morning over a bad hair day and realized (along with being 7 1/2 months pregnant) that I was slamming into the Holiday Wall myself.

Thankfully (and I’m going to go on a bit of a spiritual rant now) we have a God who takes care of us when we aren’t doing a very good job of it ourselves.

Luke received unexpected Christmas bonuses from both of his jobs, I was able to pick up some extra work, and Luke’s parents have generously offered to help with the payment on the tree removal. My family is home and recuperating and Christmas is only two days away. I feel 50 lbs lighter.

I wonder sometimes though if we’d have this kind of attitude and continue to praise God if things didn’t work themselves out so nicely. It’s easy to look on the bright side and be thankful when God takes away our burdens. But if God has another plan, if He knows we need to carry a burden for a little longer, whatever the reason, isn’t He still that same loving God? He’s still doing what’s best for us, even if it doesn’t feel like it.

So today I wanted to take a turn at encouraging YOU. I know lots of people feel overwhelmed and stressed this time of year. Please know that even if your prayers are seeming to go unanswered that God’s timing is perfect and He works all things out for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28 ya’ll).

I haven’t done a post like this before and I hope it doesn’t scare you away. I know most people look at blogs like these for fun, pretty posts with lots of clickable things but this was weighing on me and I wanted to share it with you. And there are more fun, pretty, click-y things to come! Stay with me. And please let me know what you think and if there’s anything I can pray about for you.

I hope we all can remember that Christmas is more than buying absurd amounts of presents, waiting in line at Macy’s, and cooking an elaborate enough meal to possibly impress your mother-in-law. Take some time to pray today and tell God all the things that are burdening you. Even if they don’t untangle by the end of the prayer, you will feel better, I promise.

Stay tuned for more, reader, I have lots in store!

Love always,

-Tara

P.S. As a token of my appreciation, please follow this link to my Pin Boards, which have all sorts of fun, pretty, click-y things

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